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Young children and the word "no"
The child continued to use the word "not" stem from a strong desire to be independent Frgbth independence can mean that it displays a lot of negative behavior is reasonable and this is perplexing.
Common examples include the rejection of the food we eat last week and insist on the parents to the implementation of an impossible task, like finding a favorite game has through out the family trip and the game found the house and this difficult period may not last long in some young children, but others may last for several months or continue in childhood at a later time as possible and be difficult for some parents to deal with them.
Some tips to deal with similar situations:If the parents refused to request a specific language must be used other than "no" better to deal with the child, but if necessary, say "no" to matters of safety, must parents as saying in a calm, not angry.
Parents may be forced to use smart tactics such as "we race to attend his shoes first," instead of "Bring your shoes."
Put options for your child such as "Do you want to wear red or black pants?" Or "Do you want an apple or an orange?"Use praise to encourage repeat behavior.
Distract the child such as "I think the car door to come," often lead to make the child forget that he was on the verge of starting the battle
Try not to laugh at the whole child to say "no."
Explain why some unacceptable behaviors such as "this hot and I almost burn yourself" and make the child feel heated.
Delay the use of words such as "maybe later" or "after lunch."
Alternatives such as "you can not write on the wall, but you can write on this piece of paper."
The child continued to use the word "not" stem from a strong desire to be independent Frgbth independence can mean that it displays a lot of negative behavior is reasonable and this is perplexing.
Common examples include the rejection of the food we eat last week and insist on the parents to the implementation of an impossible task, like finding a favorite game has through out the family trip and the game found the house and this difficult period may not last long in some young children, but others may last for several months or continue in childhood at a later time as possible and be difficult for some parents to deal with them.
Some tips to deal with similar situations:If the parents refused to request a specific language must be used other than "no" better to deal with the child, but if necessary, say "no" to matters of safety, must parents as saying in a calm, not angry.
Parents may be forced to use smart tactics such as "we race to attend his shoes first," instead of "Bring your shoes."
Put options for your child such as "Do you want to wear red or black pants?" Or "Do you want an apple or an orange?"Use praise to encourage repeat behavior.
Distract the child such as "I think the car door to come," often lead to make the child forget that he was on the verge of starting the battle
Try not to laugh at the whole child to say "no."
Explain why some unacceptable behaviors such as "this hot and I almost burn yourself" and make the child feel heated.
Delay the use of words such as "maybe later" or "after lunch."
Alternatives such as "you can not write on the wall, but you can write on this piece of paper."
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